In addition to our coop, we are also blessed to be a part
of a larger, more formal homeschooling group in our city, and these guys do
some amazing things! We took part in a
lot of firsts for our family this year, such as the Regional Heritage Fair and
the Spelling Bee, we took advantage of CAT (Canadian Acheivement Tests) offered
by the group, and for the fourth year in a row took in the groups annual Track
and Field day. It made for a busy end to our year, but I feel like this is the
richest year yet, and I'm so enjoying getting to know the families that are a
part of this larger group.
Another thing my oldest son did all on his own was take part in a computer coding competition for kids. He had taken a course at our local library and LOVED it, so when the competition was announced I knew he'd be interested. Kids had to submit their projects for approval, and when we got the email from the directors at first I hesitated to open it - what if he didn't make it? Turns out my fears were unfounded because he did, indeed, manage to qualify. It was open to students all across the province, and he was delighted to take part. He submitted the application and created the project 100% on his own, and I was so happy for him. It was a great experience.
Besides group events we also had a busy calendar keeping
up with music and other extra curriculars on a weekly basis. As in previous
years the kids were all in piano lessons. We had the sweetest teacher who
retired this year, and we're all going miss her so much. Piano lessons have
been so great for the kids, and they are really picking it up quickly.
They have also continued with scouting, and this year my
oldest daughter joined her three big brothers in the program. I can't say enough good things about this, it
really had been so great for our kids and they really enjoy it and learn a lot.
The older boys did camping this year for the first time, and while it was a lot
for this Mama to get used to, they were over the moon about it.
All but my youngest also did ballet this year, which has
proven to be an interesting experience.
Last summer at my daughter's recital my second oldest son said to me,
starry eyed, "I want to do ballet next year!" When you're a boy in ballet you really are a
superstar, since there are not a lot of boys there isn't much competition for
male lead parts. He had his younger
brother talked into it as well, which worked good because they were in the same
age group. However having three children
instead of one in ballet meant that I had to wait around the studio for an hour
and a half, since their classes were staggered.
I ended up enrolling my youngest (and wildest!) son in the beginner
class at the same time as his sister, so I didn't have to sit with him in the
waiting room the entire time! And after
a couple of weeks hearing about how much his younger brothers enjoyed it, my
oldest decided he'd like to give it a try as well. I had told each of them that if they started,
they had to stick with it until the end of the year and they were all
game. Not long into it however, they
began to lose interest. Joseph was the
first, after the very first week in fact because he was the only boy in his
class, which was quite intimidating (and ten-year-old girls who've been in
lessons together since Kindergarden aren't exactly the easiest group of people
for one lone boy to make friends with).
I felt for him immediately, but he made a promise and I wanted him to
honour that even when it wasn't easy - and boy did he ever surprise me. He was never thrilled about it, but he went
week after week without complaining. At
Halloween he made ballet Pokémon cards to hand out to his class, which was
pretty cool. And at the end of the year
when the teacher gave him the choice between sitting out the recital or having
a special part made for him, he chose to take part. Jeff and I along with his teacher gave him
the freedom to walk away (his teacher said performing wasn't for everyone, and
it was okay if he didn't want to) but he stepped up and saw it through, and I
am so proud of him. In the middle of
winter it was so tempting for me to just pull all of the older boys, which
would have cut my ballet time in half and saved us their tuition fees, but I
knew I couldn't expect them to keep their commitments when it got hard if I
wasn't willing to do the same. And now
that it's over, I'm so grateful that we did it.
The recital was a grand affair that ended the year on a positive note,
instead of just stopping mid-year and having nothing to show for their efforts. Two of them even said they wanted to do it
next year (we're not, too much of a time and financial commitment) - but it
just goes to show how finishing on a positive note can really change our
experience. And it's probably the only
time I will ever see all of them on stage together in the same production. It was so worth all the time and energy we
put into it.
The other thing my two oldest boys took part in this year
was the public school district String program.
I took violin all through elementary and middle school, and it was like
a step back into the past to see my oldest boys pick up this great
instrument. They even have the same
teachers and the same location that I went to more than 25 years ago. The beginner program started in January and I
am amazed at what the teachers were able to accomplish with all their students
by their end of year concert. All
families have their niche I think, and ours is definitely music. It runs deep on both sides of the family, and
I look forward to watching my children develop in musicianship as they grow.
And then of course, there was the birth of our baby. That
blessed event we have been preparing for since the beginning of the school
year. In the Spring I re-evaluated the
material we had left, and adjusted their daily workload so that we could be
finished by the beginning of June in case the baby came early. I knew that whenever baby arrived I wanted to
stop school, and I wanted to be sure there was nothing left unfinished. The kids really picked up the slack, and
between the extra school work and all the end of year activities that seem to
take us by surprise every single year (not to mention standardized testing I
did this year for the first time, which ended up being way more time consuming
than I anticipated) they all wrapped up just in time for David's one-week-early
arrival. For the first time ever I was
on top of their marking, so when Jeff came home at the end of the week he was
actually able to sit with each of the kids and go over their grades for the
year. He was pleasantly surprised at
their progress, and I was happy to find the CAT test results confirmed the
marks I had for them (I never know as a Mom if I'm doing a good job as their
teacher, so it was nice to see they're all well on track with the national
objectives). Jeff planned an amazing end
of year party complete with treats, a super-cool grading present and a movie,
and after a fantastic evening of celebration we officially declared the 2014-15
school year a wrap.
This year had definitely been one for the books. It's been our busiest yet since it's the
first year we haven't had a little baby, and we accomplished so much! I know that there will be so many changes
next year and honestly look forward to slowing down a bit, but I can't help but
be grateful for all the fullness that 2014-15 brought to us, and all the ways
the kids grew and rose to the occasion time after time. Four years under my
belt and I'm still loving this journey - I love being with my kids, watching
them learn and grow, and become the people God intends them to be right before
my eyes. This is a truly blessed life,
and I'm so thankful God has chosen me to walk with all of these little people.
And now, bring on the summer!
The beauty of this post and the way you live your life brings tears to my eyes..
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